How to Change Yourself? Change Your Life*


*This is part 2 of the series: The Journey of Change

Change needs a conscious decision………you need to make that decision…

The decision is based on your attitude… ask yourself deep inside….do you really want to change? If you find a positive Yes……..good……that means you have that necessary attitude………..

We tend to underestimate the power of attitudes.

Our attitudes have significant influences on our lives. Many experts believe that the personal attitude is more important than personal skills. Earl Nightingale who was known as the “Dean of Personal Development” had this quotes "Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us."

 

  

 

Why do you want to change? You have your own reasons…….but I think you want it – like everyone else- because you simply want a better life………and you deserve to have a better life………you were born special and different……….no wonder your life has to be different…………………and life does not get better by itself…….it needs something …….life does not pay attention to chance…..I know that chance and luck exist but …………………..life wants change…it only responds to deliberate change………..change from the inside

 

When you start towards that change………… remember that you want to change for yourself whether you are aware of it or not, you need to change not for any one…….not for anything outside you……………

According to Bill Cosby "I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody."

Change is only for you………..when you take that road for change………take it for you only………………

After all, it is your life

Muhammad Ali, the greatest heavyweight boxer said this quote "I don't have to be what nobody else wants me to be and I am not afraid to be what I want to be."

 

 

Your life belongs to you…..God gave that life to you……..and during this life journey, you will know

many things and meet many people………….and some of these people……..whether friends or others….will tell you to change in this or that way………because they see your change from their viewing angle…………. usually for good reasons……..but you don’t want to change according to some outside criteria….you don’t want to live according to what others say………….you want to be your own boss………

Only you can determine how and when to change

You change  for yourself

 

 

Change needs your action………it is what you think and do that determines your life…………………….the road to change starts today…………..steps you take now will lead you to that road……….Today will be followed by tomorrow……….you can do something or do nothing…..but whatever you do or do not do will shape your tomorrow

 

Today is the most important factor, and according to Francis Gray "Look well to this day. Yesterday is but a dream and tomorrow is only a vision. But today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope. Look well therefore to this day."

 

 

We all need to change…………..we all want to live a good life………….we all seek happiness …………..we all run after success………………….

We all have the ability to make our intentions a reality………we all can transfer our thoughts into material success

Napoleon Hill, one of the best writers on success, had this quotes "Man, alone, has the power to transform his thoughts into physical reality; man, alone, can dream and make his dreams come true."

We people have many abilities and potential, but we limit those abilities by our negative look towards life.

Some of us  appreciate life and others do not know how to enjoy it……………some do not realize how valuable our life can be……………

Remember that life is a true gift

 

Change your direction….to reach a new destination

Today take action….and overcome any hesitation

Change with passion…so as to get self actualization

Change any relation… if it leads to self salvation

Change your concentration… and get deeper realization

Change your communication… to get a successful relation

Write a new page …..that  does not expire by age

Release change out of the cage….and become a sage

Change for your welfare… and avoid despair

Change is not a nightmare… it is flying in the air.

Take deliberate choices… and stay away from blind chances

 

Please follow the series for personal change.

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